I haven’t posted in a while because we’ve been busy dealing with snow. Lots of snow. I am so sick of snow. Last week, on Wednesday, the whole state was preparing for anywhere from 6-15 inches of snow. I didn’t want to get stuck at home with nothing to do for several days, so on my way home from work on Wednesday, I stopped at the Dollar Store to pick up some important supplies. Some people stopped to get bread, milk and butter but I stopped to get crayons, glue and pompoms. A friend of mine had suggested getting a “snow day bin” together to pull out on days when you’re stuck inside and need fun things to do with your toddler. I was determined to have fun and to not get cabin fever. Well it seemed to work!
Luckily, Ken was also off on Thursday because of the snow. He did have to get a lot of studying done too, but he had time to play with us a bit, which was nice! Julia is a big fan of the snow. She loved playing in the snow so much that she cried when we had to bring her back inside. Surprisingly the cold didn’t even bother her. She was actually happy to have her gloves come off and to touch the snow with her bare hands. She especially liked eating the snow!
Julia did have her first snow-related injury Thursday morning: she was so excited to be playing in the snow that she ran a little too fast and slipped on the slippery sidewalk. She face-planted right on our sidewalk. She paused for a moment (which made me panic) but she quickly got up and started running around again! Her nose was all scraped and bleeding though, so I put some snow on it and she was completely unfazed. After we were done playing in the snow, we came back inside to take off our boots and have lunch! Julia was clearly worn out from so much fun (either that or eating lunch is very hard work) cause she fell asleep in her high chair! She started yawning and then just conked out right there in her high chair! I was able to bring her upstairs to change her diaper and then I put her in her crib and she was out like a light. At home her naps have been horrible… ranging from about 45 minutes to an hour and a half at the most. I keep hearing about these babies Julia’s age who take 2-3 hour naps every day and I wonder how that happens. But then I remind myself that Julia sleeps very well at night (usually) and I’d rather have a baby who sleeps at night and doesn’t take good naps than the other way around so I won’t complain (too much).
and we also made Valentine’s Day cards for all our family! In addition to arts and crafts supplies, I also got some letter and number magnets that we played with on a cookie sheet (thanks, Pinterest!)
Friday, Ken had to go back to work but daycare was still closed because of all the snow–the main roads were mostly plowed and clear for cars to drive but most of the side roads were still covered in snow. We hung out at home for a bit in the morning:
It’s amazing what a difference a year can make! She’s gone from a little baby to a toddler with a mind of her own in the past year.
Saturday and Sunday, Ken had mandatory study sessions he had to go to, so Julia and I were on our own to make mischief. We got a lot done both days and of course we had a lot of fun while we were at it! On Saturday morning, we took some silly selfie pictures (one of Julia’s favorite activities!)
and then we got all bundled up in the Ergo to walk through the snow to the Hopkins bookstore. Julia likes the Ergo because she can nurse while we’re walking. It leaves my hands free to do what I need to do, which is nice, and she’ll (sometimes) even fall asleep while we’re walking around! Here, you can’t even tell that she is nursing! At the bookstore on Saturday mornings, they have story time for kids. Julia was the youngest kid there but it didn’t stop her from enjoying herself! The theme this week was Maisy, from the Maisy book series. They even had a life-size Maisy. I wasn’t sure how Julia would react, given her reaction to the Oriole bird the other week… but she was actually much more comfortable with Maisy. She waved and said hi, and even walked up to Maisy to tickle her feet!
Saturday night a babysitter from Julia’s classroom at daycare came over to babysit so that Ken and I could enjoy ourselves for a Valentine’s Day date night! We went to dinner in Little Italy, got dessert at Vaccarro’s and then went out to see Dr. Corey’s band play a show in Dundalk.
By the end of the night we were exhausted and we knew that our human alarm clock would be waking us up around 6:30 the next morning so we went home and went to sleep but we did have a lovely night out! (Our next date night will be next week for Ken’s 30th Birthday!)
Sunday morning I went to brunch with my Uncle Neil, Aunt Karen and cousins Rachel and David. Neil & Karen decided at the last minute to make a quick visit to Baltimore. (This is one thing I love about being on the East Coast… we are close enough to family that we can see them for a quick visit like that if we want to. We’re close enough to Ken’s older brother and our niece and nephew that if we wanted to we could go visit them for a weekend by driving up Friday after work or Saturday morning and driving back Sunday night.) We went to a great little bistro in Bolton Hill. Neil & Karen are thinking of possibly moving to Baltimore which would be really nice cause it would mean seeing them more often. It would be fun for Julia to grow up and really get to know them!
The only problem with going to brunch in the late morning (as opposed to an early morning breakfast) is that it wears Julia out so much that she often falls asleep in the car on our way home from brunch. She then gets this idea in her mind that if she’s had 5 minutes of sleep in the car, that’s enough of a nap for her and she will NOT go back to sleep when we get home. I tried… I tried nursing her back to sleep, I tried putting her down in the crib and rubbing her back, I tried lying down with her in my bed but she would NOT go back to sleep. So instead, I gave up and we went to Corey & Steffi’s Engagement Party. We did have a good time but Julia would have been in a much happier place if she had had a nap. Oh well…
After the party we came home to play a bit, had dinner and then Julia went to sleep.
Yesterday was Presidents Day and since daycare was closed it was yet another Mommy & Julia day! It was Day #5 of our 5-day snowy weekend! In the morning we went to breakfast with a new mommy friend and her son and then we went to a local song/play group that happens in the neighborhood next to ours. Julia had fun singing, dancing and playing with lots of different musical instruments. We came home to let the house-cleaners in, and then got some errands done in the afternoon.
Julia was in a horrendous mood yesterday evening during dinner (and this morning during breakfast, for that matter!)… she does have a little cold which could be affecting her mood and I think she may have a few more teeth on their way. She did not want to eat anything… she was throwing food on the floor, putting food in her hair, dropping food on the seat of her high chair. It was not a pretty sight. I even tried spoon-feeding her a pouch but she batted my hand out of the way and wanted nothing to do with that.
Everyone has a different opinion about how to deal with toddlers and picky eating/annoying eating behaviors and I don’t know which strategy to use… I know she won’t starve but I don’t feel comfortable sending her to bed without dinner since I fear she will wake up a few hours later hungry, and 11 PM is not time to eat dinner. (This did happen last night… she went to sleep at 7:30 but was then up at 10:30 wanting to nurse.) I try to offer her food options I know she likes, but at the same time I don’t want to be a “short order cook” and make her a separate meal from what we’re eating as a family. It’s one thing to tell an older child, “you don’t have to eat but you just have to sit with the family during dinner time” but you can’t exactly tell a toddler to be patient and sit with the family. The food throwing is really annoying and we’re figuring out ways to get that to stop… sometimes it helps to give her just one piece of food at a time but sometimes even then she’ll just throw it as us. I’ve tried giving her 3 warnings that I will take her food away but I need to start taking her out of her high chair and ending the meal time if that happens. Toddlers are frustrating little creatures but then they give you a big hug or a cute little smile and it just about makes up for it.
This morning our conversation went like this: I put some pieces of clementine and some cheerios on Julia’s high chair tray and she started throwing them, so I took them away and put them on the table, out of her reach. I then gave her a sippy cup of milk. She drank some of that and then threw it at me, so I put it on the table. She looked at me longingly and said, “more.” I offered her one piece of orange and said, “do you want some orange?” “NO!” I offered her one cheerio and asked, “do you want some cheerios?” “NO!” I then went to the kitchen to get a pouch and a spoon. I showed her the spoon and asked her, “do you want some bananas and pumpkin?” “NO!” Then she said it again: “more!” (I should add that “more” and “milk” sound a lot alike). So I offered her the sippy cup again and she pushed my hand out of the way, yelling “NO!” At that point I gave up, put on her jacket and we went to daycare. I know she won’t starve since they feed her snacks and lunch at daycare but this behavior makes me wonder how more toddlers don’t get thrown away with the trash.
Thank you, Mommy, for not throwing me away!